Me, Myself & Life...

Introduction: This is my first blog and what I am writing here will able you to understand and identify with me in better terms. So, here we go...

A Thought and a Second: ... I always thought that it would be cool if I got everything I wanted for myself easily. But, life had other ideas for me! I mean, it's not that I am struggling a lot and there is much I should get which I am not getting and not even that I expect a lot from life. But, there is always this little hope that someday, some fine day I will get what I wanted and more without much effort. Well guess what "EASIER SAID THAN DONE!"
Well, when I give this thought a thought, I find it hilarious that the line of thinking is no different than that of a man who lies on a bed and thinks that he will get whatever he wants without effort. But, nevertheless, as we say in Hindi/Urdu "kabhi kabhi mere dil mein khayal aata hai..."

Among some other thoughts is one where I am the king of my own world and others just follow what I say or do. Oh, I wish this one comes true earlier than any other. But again to give a second thought to this, what fun the world be if everyone does what I say or do? None, right...!!

There is always this second thinking process in my mind which keeps going on, no matter how much engrossed I am in one thought or activity. People working in the current Software/Hardware environment may term it as "second thread" in my brain processing system. And this "second thread" keeps questioning me about the first thread; questions like - Why, this way? What if...? and How...? etc. I sometime think this is my conscience, but then is conscience negative too? Because I keep getting this negative second thoughts too!!

I really don't know, right now my second thread is asking me "Why this line of questioning?" so, let me leave it at that...

Philosophy: Well, I always follow my own philosophy, so I generally don't end up having philosophical discussions with people...

Present: Having said that, I have come a long way in this short lifespan and seen a life which I never imagined. From a world which is encompassed only by parents/grandparents and family friends to a world full of friends to the present day cut-throat competitive corporate environment, I have experienced and met people from different walks of life.

The most amazing aspect I find is that each time I see a person I analyze him/her in a new way and each time I analyze him/her I know that there is much to learn.

Good or Bad: Ma always says that when we look at others we should try to imbibe the good qualities in them and just forget about the bad qualities (even not to criticize those!). But to do that it is necessary to know "What is Good and What is Bad?"

Well, that is a controversial/debatable question which I don't have an answer to. My take on people and the good and bad part of them is that they are what they are, they are so because their surroundings, their social network, their family, their education, their friends are like that. It is really difficult to change any of these, which makes it difficult to change ourselves for better or worse. We are definitely the product of our thought process and our thought process is governed by all of the above. Again, the definition of good or bad then is derived from the present day scenario and circumstances and the thought process combined together. So, what is good for one might not be good for other, and again what is bad for one might be good for another.

So why does society and we differentiate and judge people on the basis of good or bad? Why not segregate people on the basis of our preferences rather that good or bad?

Enough is enough... So, this brings me to the end of this blog! Often it is not the language or the passage which conveys its meaning but the thought which goes in it. So I leave you with another of my thought (which may be fairly common among people!!):

"Shabdon ki ek zubaan hoti hai,
khayalon ki ek alag duniyan hoti hai!
Donon jab mil jaate hain to,
ek alag hi daastan bayan hoti hai...!"

which translates to:

"Words have their own language,
Thoughts/Dreams have their own world;
When both of them meet,
A new tale is written!"